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|Peter Bentley TB is a Psychology grad, observer of society, aspiring rental housing magnate.|
He believes that the key to life is for men to honour their primal nature. Visit his new website at primalexistence. Statistics prove this as well as divorce has been epidemic for a while now with record-number of children growing up with single parent around the world while young people are having less sex than before.
And whether you be a feminist or part of the manosphere, I think both sides can agree on one thing: Why is all this happening?
While men and women tend to play the blame game to avoid taking any responsibility, there are greater forces at play. The fact is, the continuing transformation of our society is making the antagonism between the sexes inevitable. Feminism is just a symptom, not the cause of our problems.
Mutuality based on different but compatible roles. All relationships work best when two parties have something different to share for their mutual benefit. For example, humans and horses have enjoyed a close relationship together throughout history unlike, say, humans and bears.
The relationship works because in exchange for food, protection, and care that humans provide, the horses offer themselves as transportation. The relationship between men and women was also mutually beneficial for the entirety of human existence with men offering their services in exchange for having the women bear their children.
But now, with the advent of modern society and its conditions, things have changed drastically. Men have always provided for women. Men hunted for food, labored to build everything, and fought battles to defend their tribe.
To say that men oppressed women throughout history is an insult to all those who sacrificed themselves in the factories, the coal mines, and the trenches. In exchange for their toil, the only thing men asked of women was to be supportive in their roles as wives and mothers.
So what we have today is a situation where women have gotten their social equality while sexual inequality persists for men which is why many men choose to give up sex entirely to level the playing field. This is what happens when you standardize human beings into economic units. Education and career over family Stressed out from balancing between work and family?
To maintain their advantage over men, women today are dedicating themselves to their education and career.
Western women, in particular, have been so thoroughly sold on the idea of status and consumerist orgy that they are no longer interested in relationships.
More and more women today are delaying marriage if not outright rejecting it. And when they do get married, they are using it as a means to trap men into donating their sperm and cash, only to bail out when they want to. Slut culture Wow, what an achievement!
The advent of contraception and the decimation of whatever feminine decency that was left has turned the vast majority of young Western women into drunken sluts. The increasing number of sluts is diminishing the availability of quality women that men want to start a family with and has social implications for the society as a whole.
Government supplanting men Loading As said before, men form relationships with women by exchanging values, with his strength to provide and protect being his greatest asset. But now, the government along with corporations and education system fulfills those roles that men previously occupied.
And that leads to my next point. Too few wars, too many men I doubt these men had to think of ways to entertain women like a monkey to get their attention.
The recurring theme across patriarchal societies of the past and present are violence and warfare. And the most commonly associated traits of masculinity are also traits of warriors such as strength, bravery, aggression, discipline, and so on. And the more conflicts and wars there are, the more the women depend on men—thus keeping the collective value of male population high.
The lack of warfare also means that there are now more young men per woman practically 1 to 1 than there normally would have been under a warring society. Excess of men—who are also emasculated and feminized—means that the collective value of average men has dropped to a historical low, upsetting the balance of sexual marketplace in the process.
The decimation of Western women Declining marriage rates?
Many Western women have been corrupted by our toxic materialist society. They are fatter, uglier, more narcissistic, more entitled, hedonistic, superficial, less faithful, and seem to think that having bitch attitude makes them hip. You only need to check out the gross discrepancies between the sexes in dating sites and apps to see how bad things are.
Lack of shared values As social beings, we humans need more than economic incentives and passions to form a relationship for a family to prosper.May 27, · The murderer was active on men’s rights fora, where women are highly objectified, to say the very least.
They are seen as nonhuman by many such groups, and at the very least lesser than men. Men should have property, men should have high salary, men should more height than women, men should more status etc.
If men are lessor of any thing than women, No women will marry such men. So everything at the cost of man, man’s parents. A guide for women, men and bosses. “We’ve both seen it happen again and again,” Sandberg and Grant write.
Meet the brotherhood of “Men Going Their Own Way,” a burgeoning movement of guys who believe womankind has let them down. Four experiments show that gender differences in the propensity to initiate negotiations may be explained by differential treatment of men and women when they attempt to negotiate.
Do women and men really speak so differently? In , an article appeared in the journal American Psychologist with the title The Gender Similarities Hypothesis.